Earlier Drafts:
Composition:
linen skirt (H&M)
braided leather belt (Target)
red patterned scarf (snagged during La Merce in Barcelona)
nude suede heels (Seychelles)
Usage:
This week Liz, Katie, and I are excited to participate in Academichic's Dress Your Best Week! We're cooking up outfits which flatter our best attributes, and we encourage you to join our feel-good fashion fest. Last week, in preparation, Academichic readers contributed lists of five favorite features*. Here's my list:
1. complexion
2. toned shoulders and arms
3. small ankles
4. clavicle bones
5. flat stomach
There they are, the motivators of my private fist-pumping. Behold. Admittedly, it feels awkward to boast about my body, but I'm encouraged by the exercise. If I so readily own my flaws, why not own my features as well?
Today I'm also thrilled to hop aboard the Breton Stripes boat hosted by What I Wore. For a complete roll call of Jessica Schroeder's nautically-bedecked readers, stop by her notable blog!
Luckily, the two sartorial themes - Dressing my best and dressing Breton - have converged on the very day I had hoped to celebrate my arms and my stomach. Over the weekend, I struggled to compose ensembles which highlighted these attributes. After scouring my closet, I realized many of my tops, like this one, include detailing which detracts from my middle. I have to confess: I typically use fabric to beef up my figure, to give the illusion of a curvier body. I don't often wear body-hugging silhouettes precisely because I think my frame is too boyish. To compound my Dress Your Best predicament, I felt stumped by the question of dressing 'tastefully' (the cultural definition of which likely merits a separate post). I asked myself, how can I feature my abs in a sophisticated way?
Then I remembered one of Liz's posts challenged the perception that narrower equals more flattering. She contended that a woman should embrace low-slung belts and horizontal stripes specifically because those garments highlight her hips and abs and breasts. I'm not curvy, I thought, but wearing horizontal stripes might serve my purpose, too. Casting a visual line across my body - rather than down my body - might draw attention to the stomach and arms I love so much. And choosing a tee of the cap-sleeved variety would further showcase my arms. (Is it just me, or do women cover their arms all too often?)
I won't lie. While sporting this outfit, I felt proud of my body. Why don't I wear horizontal stripes more often? Perhaps, as Katie suggests, the "no horizontal stripes" rule is another one I should revisit. I might benefit from assessing whether or not it works for my own figure, rather than presuming its universal application.
Prompts:
- What's your take on the "no horizontal stripes" rule? Always a no-go? Depends on the person?
- Do you think this outfit accomplishes my goal? Would you have styled it differently?
- What do you like about your own body? Hop aboard the Dress Your Best Week train!
*For a directory of Dress Your Best Week participants and links to their personal lists, visit Academichic's run-down here.
5 comments:
Ahoy, fellow Breton striped blogger! I completely ignore that horizontal stripes rule. Completely.
I definitely think that this outfit showcases your flat and fit abs.
I love the outfit! After looking at the collage on WIW I feel a desperate need for some Breton stripes.
I also appreciate your honesty about your body image. I think women have a tendency to think the grass is always greener. I wish I was as curvy as X. I wish I was as fit as X. It's sometimes hard to embrace whatever it is we have, and I like how you've used this exercise to work toward that.
-Liz
You look super-cute in this outfit and it definitely suits you and your trim figure. I especially like the neckerchief, such a nice pop of colour on a classic palette.
And FYI, some women cover their arms (and I am one of them) because arms let you down. Literally. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may, and all that.
Thanks, guys! I had fun with this What I Wore challenge.
Dorky Medievalist, I question Robert Herrick's definition of a woman's prime. Arg, that poem! :) Anyway, I hope when I'm older and my arms no longer reflect an active lifestyle, that I'm prouder of them than I am now. Perhaps a woman's arms merit display because they represent strength, whether or not they look muscular.
Still, I understand the insecurity. While growing up, my brothers poked fun at a certain teacher's "flabby" arms. I still blame them for my self-consciousness. :)
- Anne-Marie
Anne-Marie, this is such an adorable outfit, and you definitely made me rethink horizontal stripes too (though I'm not sure I can quite pull them off like you do).
Your little scarf (ascot?) is such a great touch!
-Katie
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